I feel really blessed. This morning (ok... so it was early afternoon), I was laying in bed with Emma and we were playing an animal game. I make the noises and she guesses which animal it is. Her head was about 2 inches from my face. Here's what went down:
Emma: "Mommy, why do you have freckles all over your face?"
Me: "Well babe, because God made me different and special in my own little way."
Emma: "I wish I could be just like you"
So cute. I will never forget that moment! Of course I didn't tell her that all my life my freckles had given me trouble. And that growing up, people made fun of those dots... those moments are all a blur now and what a blessing to have children who think they are pretty!!! And to top it all off, I have a husband who tells me I look better without make-up. How lucky can I be? My dad used to tell my mom that same thing and I will never forget the first time Dan said it to me. It was a special moment.
I sure hope I can teach my girls the difference between real love and the not so real stuff they may think is real along the way. I read this on Facebook the other day and thought it was good:
"Find a guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot, who calls you back when you hang up on him... wait for the guy who kisses your forehead, who holds your hand in front of his friends, who thinks you're just as pretty without makeup on. The one who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares and how lucky he is to have YOU... The one who turns to his friends and says, "thats her."
I can't wait to talk to my girls about all of this stuff. Ok, actually I already do. They think it's silly but I want them to know it's ok to wait and find the right guy to marry. I struggled with a couple of my exes.... do I break-up or do I just marry because I love them and accept all of the other not so good stuff? Well, I hope and pray I stay healthy so I can walk my girls through all of this. There has to be love of course but there needs to be so much more.
Megan said the other day that we were "really lucky" to have a house and a pool. I had to correct her and explain that luck had nothing to do with it. Here we go.... this is when the kids go "mmmmmmoooooommmmm.... can you please stop?" 30 minutes later Claire had memorized the 4 things (Jennifer's version) that you need to do in order to get a house and have a good marriage. Here's what she repeats and it's so darn cute: 1.) you must get a good education 2.) you must get a good job 3.) you must work hard 4.)you must find a husband that has all your same morals & values.
She has a hard time saying number 4. She doesn't really like talking about boys and is getting really shy. But, she knows what it means.
Happy Mother's Day to my wonderful Mamo & Nana. I think my kids are the luckiest girls to have both of those ladies in their lives. Talk about unconditional love. I can only imagine how I will feel when one of my girls gives birth. Wow!
We went to Tommy Bahama's for lunch today and here are a few pics:
And since it was mommy's day and my girls wanted to go on the jumpy, we went on the jumpy. I wanted to go shopping in the market area but that quickly went out the window when Claire pleaded with me with those precious blue eyes and that freckly little face. We waited in line for an hour. I had to run to the Gap to get Claire some shorts.... but by all means!!!
Claire had the flips down pat!
Megan practiced her beautiful stradle.
Emmie was a little scared at first but she did great!